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"If I just find a man who choose's me
then I will be okay?

Sound Familiar?

Ready to find and keep love?YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE

My name is Shannon Ball. I will show you the proven way to attract

someone who shows up fully —

consistent, caring, and emotionally available.

No more knot of fear in your stomach — no more waiting for a text,

no more wondering where you stand.

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When you know how to heal at the root 🌱,

you can create relationships that feel steady, mutual, and real.

Because you can’t receive the love you deserve if you’re stuck chasing it, right?


You weren’t meant to do this alone.

There is so much hope and it starts with you!

Why does love

feel so hard?

 

Discover how your early experiences shape your love patterns—

and how to finally feel secure in relationships.

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✅ Ever wonder why you feel so anxious after a text goes unanswered . . .
🚫 Why you constantly worry about the state of your relationship . . .
💔 Or why you sometimes feel an intense fear of abandonment?

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👉 Take the quiz and start building the secure relationship you deserve.

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Testimonial

"I continue to benefit from the ways you've helped me and trained me to tune in and take good, kind care of myself.  Our whole family is making miraculous progress. Thank you so much for how you've contributed to my getting well." B. K.

(More testimonials below)

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                                                                                      I’m Shannon Ball, a trauma-informed love and                                                                                            relationship coach who helps women break free                                                                                        from the confusion, overthinking, and emotional                                                                                        rollercoasters that come with anxious                                                                                                            attachment and unbalanced love.

 

                                                                                      Through attachment-focused, somatic coaching,

                                                                                      I guide women to heal the roots of relationship                                                                                          anxiety, self-doubt, and relentless self-criticism —                                                                                  so they can stop chasing, start receiving, and                                                                                          finally feel secure in love.

               

 

 

If you’ve ever found yourself over-analyzing every text, walking on eggshells, or trying to “fix” a partner who won’t meet you halfway, there’s nothing wrong with you.
You’re not broken — you’re running an old survival pattern.

​And that pattern can absolutely be rewired.

                     

  

 

Picture the following 

  • You wake up feeling relaxed and trusting that all is well — no more waiting for a text, no more wondering where you stand.

  • You attract someone who shows up fully — consistent, caring, and emotionally available.

  • You feel pursued, cherished, and chosen by a partner who wants to build something lasting with you.

  • You speak your needs with confidence, set boundaries without guilt, and move through love with ease instead of anxiety.

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Because now, love feels steady. Safe. Real.

This can be you.  I know, I have been there and now rest in a secure, committed, fun relationship.

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  Ready to get started? ⬇️

  • You feel like you will die if they leave you.

  • You replay texts or conversations in your head, wondering what you said wrong.

  • When they don’t call or text back, your stomach drops — and your mind starts racing.

  • Being alone is no bueno.

  • You feel calm only when you know where you stand with them.

  • You try to be the “perfect partner,” afraid if you mess up, they’ll pull away.

  • You read between the lines constantly, searching for signs they’re losing interest.

  • You give and give, hoping they’ll finally meet you halfway.

  • You feel their moods more than your own — if they’re not okay, you’re not okay.

  • You sometimes lose yourself trying to keep the relationship together.

  • You know you should feel secure… but no matter how hard you try, love still feels like walking on eggshells.

Any of this sound familiar?

Testimonial

Circumstantially, my life seemed great. Enviable even. Marriage, children, financial stability-right on track! But internally, something felt missing. Lost. Anxious. Stuck. From our first meeting, I was shocked at how powerful and insightful my sessions were with Shannon. It became clear very quickly that this work was different. Instead of dishing out solutions or advice, Shannon facilitated a safe space where I could access more of ME; the parts of me that have been missing. Lost. Anxious. Stuck.

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She’s helped me discover the wisdom and self-confidence that had laid dormant since my earliest memories, buried beneath the rubble of people-pleasing and fear. Shannon has shown up with the energy of a kind mother, a strong father, and a supportive friend all in one. She has celebrated every step of my growth and healing, and has helped me access a hopeful fortitude to walk through circumstances that would have otherwise felt terrifying and impossible. After almost 2 years of working together, I can now say with confidence that, while I thought I was looking for a good coach, I was actually looking to recover me! And Shannon has been a wise, gentle, and honest guide at every turn. 

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Tommi

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